Wedding Invitations

One day, I may get married. However, I’m not sure that I’m going to be doing that anytime soon. Even though a lot of people may think that I should be looking to settle down, being twenty-four and having two children… I’m not sure that settling down right now would be such a good idea. Although I know that a lot of people anxiously and eagerly look forward to their wedding day and the idea of settling down with someone that they love, I’ve never yearned for that. I don’t know why, but the idea of spending the rest of my life legally bound to someone actually scares me. I’ve gotten into so many relationships feeling the fire and the spark that come with dating someone new, but that always fades — and rather quickly. I’m usually left in a relationship that I’m not sure about with someone who wants to be in it more than me. I suppose it’s good that I’m waiting on buying wedding invitations, then. If I find it so disorienting taking a promise ring, I don’t see myself being able to take an engagement ring well. Although I might like the idea of rings and other pretty things because they look nice, I know that one does not belong on my hand now… and probably not any time soon.